"My Child Hates Reading." What it Actually Means and How to Help.

"My child hates reading."

If you've said this (or even just thought it), you're definitely not alone.

But here's the thing - most kids don't actually hate reading. They hate how it feels.

What's really going on:

• It feels hard

• It feels slow

• It feels frustrating

• Or they feel like they're not good at it

And kids are very good at avoiding what makes them feel that way.

The confidence piece (this is huge)

Reading isn't just academic; it can be emotional.

When a child struggles, they start to:

• Compare themselves to peers

• Avoid reading altogether

• Lose confidence quickly

Once confidence dips, progress slows even more.

What actually helps?

More worksheets? Usually not helpful.

Forcing reading? That's going to backfire.

What does help?

• Explaining that the English language really is tricky

• Reading to your child so they can still enjoy the story

• Celebrating inventive spelling for word patterns they might not have been taught

• Valuing effort over perfection

And for struggling readers, targeted support can completely change the experience.

Why the right approach matters.

When kids are taught using structured, multi-sensory methods (like Orton-Gillingham), reading starts to make sense.

Instead of guessing, they learn patterns. Instead of frustration, they feel progress.

And that is when everything starts to shift.

For local families:

If you're in St. George, Utah, and your child is struggling with reading, summer is the perfect time to rebuild confidence in a low-pressure environment.

I offer in-person tutoring designed for struggling readers. I focus on helping kids feel successful, capable, and even enjoy reading.

Start today!

Jamie

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